| Day one: Your First Nine Months
Bible Reading: Psalm 139:13-16
You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed. Psalm 139:16
HERE ARE SOME things you probably never knew about yourself:
• The first moment-the very first nanosecond-of your life determined whether you would be a boy or a girl.
• In the first hours of your life, your eye color, hair color, and other features were decided.
• When your heart began beating, you were so small you would have fit on your mother or dad’s fingernail-with room to spare!
• Before your mother even knew you were growing inside of her, you could hear and could even perform full flips inside her womb!
• About seven months before you were born, your fingers and toes looked much like they did at birth, though you were only two inches long!
• You started to grow hair in your fourth month of life (before birth) and may have even sucked your thumb!
• You first heard your mother’s voice-and began kicking and stretching-three or four months before you were born!
• In the final two months before your birth, your weight tripled, you began sleeping and waking, and you used four of your five senses: sight, sound, taste, and touch-all before your mother went into labor.
You know what else? While all that was going on, God was watching you. He was forming you, day by day. The Bible says he was knitting you together in your mother’s womb. He was loving you even before your mother knew she was pregnant. He knew how tall you would be, what color your eyes would be, whether you would have your dad’s nose or your mother’s cheekbones, and all sorts of other stuff that was going on from the first moment of your life.
Literally from Day One of your existence, you were precious in God’s sight because you were already the best thing God ever created: human life.
REFLECT: Today’s reading calls human life “the best thing God ever created.” How do you think we know that? If you’re not sure, check out Genesis 1 and compare what God himself says about the various levels of his creation. How does it feel to know that you’re “the best thing God ever created”?
ACT: Do you have any baby pictures of yourself? If you do, place your favorite in your Bible as a bookmark at Psalm 139. If you don’t, ask your parents if you can borrow one from their photo collection for that purpose.
PRAY: Say the words of Psalm 139:14 as a prayer: “Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—and how well I know it.” |
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Day two: The Image on the Card
Bible Reading: Genesis 1:26-28
God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. Genesis 1:31, NIV
YOU’RE WALKING DOWN the street, minding your own business, when you hear a voice. “Psst!” the voice says. You stop and turn. A thin man in dark glasses leans against the side of a building.
“Hey, Slick,” the man says, casting furtive glances left and right. “You wanna make the smartest deal of your life?”
You start to turn and walk away, when the man hustles around in front of you and, after a quick glance up and down the sidewalk, opens one side of his coat. There, pinned to the inside of the fabric, is a row of… baseball cards.
“I got a 1953 Walt Zambrisky card for thirteen cents,” the man says.
You shake your head and try to walk around the baseball card hawker.
“OK, OK,” he says, as he backpedals up the sidewalk ahead of you. “I can tell you’re a smart customer.” He opens the coat again and points to a card. “A Bruno Gunderschmutz rookie card, mint condition, seventy-five cents.” He wags his eyebrows as if they were battery operated.
You make a move to pass him again, but he holds up both hands. “OK, OK,” he says. “You must want the good stuff.” He steals a glance over your shoulder. “My last offer. Mickey Mantle. Rookie card. One thousand smackaroonies.”
A thousand dollars? For a baseball card? Actually, yes. Some cards have sold for more than that. Sports cards have become a valuable commodity, an investment.
But what makes a Mickey Mantle rookie card worth a thousand dollars and a Bruno Gunderschmutz rookie card worth only seventy-five cents? After all, they’re both made of nothing but cardboard and ink. What’s the difference? Just one thing: the image on the card. A Mickey Mantle card bears the image of a New York Yankees slugger who broke Babe Ruth’s record for World Series home runs and was later elected to the Baseball Hall of Fame. It’s not what the card is made of that makes it valuable; it’s the image that appears on the card.
It’s sort of the same way with human life. Human life is valuable because of the image every person bears. No matter how tall or how old he or she is, no matter what color his or her skin or hair, no matter what language he or she speaks, every human being is unbelievably valuable because he or she is created in God’s image. That’s true of you. It’s true of your friends and family. And it’s true of people you’ve never met, and even people you don’t really like. Their lives are precious because they’re made in God’s image.
REFLECT: Do you act like you believe your life is unbelievably precious? If so, in what ways? If not, why not? Do you act like you believe the lives of others are unbelievably precious? If so, in what ways? If not, why not?
PRAY: “God, I thank you that all human life is in your image and is valuable to you.”
Day three: Reflecting His Image
Bible Reading: 2 Corinthians 3:17-18 And all of us . . . can be mirrors that brightly reflect the glory of the Lord. And as the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him and reflect his glory even more. 2 Corinthians 3:18
LENNY GOT to spend the day at the bank with his father. They called it “Take Your Child to Work Day.”
As his father showed him around behind the tellers’ counter, he pointed out a neat machine that counted bills. The teller had just taken a wrapper off a stack of one-hundred-dollar bills and was putting them in the counting machine.
“Hey,” Lenny said. “That money looks funny!”
His father took a couple bills from the machine and showed them to Lenny.
“They’ve just come out with a new one-hundred-dollar bill to make it more difficult to make fake ones. See, the picture is larger, they’ve moved it off-center, they’ve used a special kind of paper … and if you hold it up to the light, you can see a strip with writing on it. While it might be possible to make a good copy of most of what you see on the bill, it’s supposed to be harder to copy everything.”
Lenny was confused. “You mean whenever you get a hundred-dollar bill, you have to hold it up to the light?”
Lenny’s father chuckled. “No,” he said. “Bank tellers are trained to recognize counterfeit money by handling nothing but the real thing. They sort and stack and shuffle real money all day long, hour after hour. The more they see and handle the real thing, the easier it is for them to recognize a fake because something about it just won’t feel right. When a counterfeit bill comes along, a teller’s familiarity with the real thing will help him or her notice something different about the counterfeit. That’s when he holds it up to the light or gets a magnifying glass or asks for the head teller to inspect it. But usually a teller is so familiar with real money, he can spot a fake pretty easily.”
“That’s neat,” Lenny said. He smiled at his dad. “Think you could give me a bunch to practice on?”
“Sure,” Dad said, “in your dreams.”
REFLECT: it’s easier to know whether something is real—or “right”—by being familiar with the original. When it comes to choices between right and wrong, God is the original. How well do you know God? Does your relationship with God help you make right choices? How can you know God even better? How can you “reflect his glory” even more?
PRAY: “Lord, make me willing to let your Spirit work within me so that I can become more like you and reflect your glory.”
Day four: The Positive Power of “No”
Bible Reading: John 10:7-10
I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:10, niv.
EVER FEEL LIKE your parents are always saying no to you? “Mom, can I go over to Carly’s house?”
“Dad, can I watch Blood, Guts, and Gore on the Movie Channel?”
“Can I have a computer for Christmas?”
“Can I stay home instead of going to Grandma’s house?”
“Can I sell my little sister to the gypsies?”
“Can I bungee jump off the roof of the house?”
It may seem like your parents never say anything but no! It may seem like they’re always saying, “Don’t do this,” and “You can’t do that.” Not only that, but it seems like God does the same thing (except that he says, “Thou shalt not do this,” and “Thou shouldst not do that”). It’s all so negative, right?
Well, no. It may sometimes seem like no is a negative word, but it can be positive. The things you say no to can make your life better, not worse.
For example, say your friends try to talk you into sneaking out your bedroom window tonight so you can go with them to spray-paint bad words on walls. You say no. Your friends get caught, and they have to spend every Saturday until they’re, like, eighty years old scrubbing graffiti off walls. Was saying no a negative thing? No, because the results—in the long run especially—were much better than if you’d said yes.
Or consider one more example. Your older brother asks you to tell your parents that he stayed home with you last night, when you know he was really out at a beer party. You don’t want to get your brother mad at you, but you say no to your brother and tell your parents the truth when they ask you. He does get mad because your parents ground him. But a week later, a carload of your brother’s friends get into a car accident on the way home from another beer party, and you realize your brother could have been hurt-or killed—if you hadn’t told the truth. Was saying no a negative thing? No, because the results-in the long run especially-were good.
Saying no can seem like such a negative thing. You might say no to something you or your friends really want to do. But saying no to wrong or unwise things is a positive thing, not a negative thing. That’s the positive power of no.
REFLECT: Does it seem that your parents always say no to the things you want to do? Have you said no to a wrong or unwise choice recently? Did that make your life worse or better? Why? The next time your parents say no to something you want to do, try to stop and ask yourself if that no might actually protect you or have another positive effect.
PRAY: “God, help me to trust your wisdom—and the wisdom of my parents— whenever I hear the word no.”
Day five: Tough Questions
Bible Reading: Isaiah 40:28-31
The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. Isaiah 40:28, NIV
A YOUNG GIRL wanted to join the chess team at school. The teacher in charge of the team said, “I will ask you three questions. If you can answer at least two of them correctly, you will be on the team.”
The teacher asked the first question: “Two people are cleaning a chimney. When they come out of the chimney, one has a dirty face and the other has a clean face. Which of them will wash his face?”
The girl answered, “The one with the dirty face.”
“Not so,” the teacher patiently replied. “The one with the clean face will wash because he sees his companion’s face and assumes that his face is also dirty.” The girl looked disappointed but understood.
The teacher then repeated the first question word-for-word. The girl assumed the teacher was giving her a second chance and said, “The one with the clean face.”
“Not so,” the teacher said sadly. “The correct answer is both, for the man with the dirty face will ask why the other man is washing when his face is not dirty; then the first man will realize he needs to wash his own face.”
“I’ve already missed two questions,” the girl said, disappointment showing on her face. “I know I won’t be on the team, but what is the third question?”
The teacher said, “The third question is one you should have asked yourself: If two men came out of a chimney, why would only one have had a dirty face?” The teacher smiled. “Don’t miss the obvious, and you will be a successful player. Welcome to the team!”
Once that poor girl learned the answers to the teacher’s questions, they seemed obvious. Choosing between right and wrong can be like that. The right answer may seem obvious when we’re looking back, but that doesn’t help us when we face a puzzling or difficult choice.
That’s why it’s so important to trust God and commit yourself to following his way-because he does know the answers. “He knows the way that I take,” Job said (Job 23:10, niv); he knows which choices are right, which are wrong, and which way is the best one for each of us to follow. He knows infinitely more than we do-which is why we’re smart when we do what he commands.
REFLECT: Christian philosopher Francis Schaeffer once said, “I would rather trust God’s wisdom than mine.” Do you agree? Why or why not?
ACT: Spring the three questions above on a friend or family member. After you share the correct answers, share also the importance of following God’s wisdom.
PRAY: “Help me to trust your wisdom by obeying your commands.”
Day six: Oops!
Bible Reading: 2 Corinthians 7:9-11
The result was to make you sorry as God would have had you sorry, and not to make you feel injured by what we said. The sorrow which God uses means a change of heart and leads to salvation without regret. 2 Corinthians 7:9-10, Phillips
RECENTLY, IN A big city the local police raided what they thought was a crack house. After searching for a few moments and finding nothing even remotely suspicious, the police realized they had the wrong house! The crack house was next door. By the time the police realized their mistake, the inhabitants of the real crack house had escaped, and the police had a lot of explaining to do.
In another town the local fire department scheduled a practice drill. Using a house they thought was scheduled for demolition, the fire department carefully set fire to it so they could practice their firefighting technique. Unfortunately, the condemned house was a block away! As you can imagine, the person who lived in the house was a little upset when he returned home to a pile of ashes.
Usually, our mistakes are a lot smaller than setting fire to the wrong house. But we all make mistakes. We can’t avoid them-they’re part of being human. The important thing is not whether we make mistakes, because everyone does; the important thing is how we respond when we make a mistake.
Now, sometimes our mistakes are sinful. Other times they’re just mistakes. But whether our mistakes involve a wrong choice or just a poor choice, the way to respond is pretty much the same.
The first thing you can do when you make a mistake is admit it. That may seem pretty obvious, but it’s surprising how many people have trouble doing that. The second part of a proper response to a mistake is to apologize to anyone your mistake hurt. (If your mistake was sinful, this would include God.) The third step is to try to correct the mistake. This isn’t always possible (you can’t “unburn” a house, for example), but you should do what you can to erase the effects of your mistake. Then, if your mistake was sinful, you should accept God’s forgiveness and try (with his help) to do better the next time. Oh, yeah, one more thing-always remember to check (and double-check) the address of any house you intend to assault.
REFLECT: What do you think is the difference between a mistake that’s sinful and a mistake that’s not sinful? Are there any recent mistakes you’ve made that you need to admit, apologize for, and try to make amends for? How will you do it? Do you think you’ll ever stop making mistakes? Do you think you can (with God’s help) make fewer wrong choices? Do you think you can (with God’s help) do a better job of admitting and correcting your mistakes?
PRAY: “Lord, I admit that I should (or shouldn’t) have_.
I apologize for my sins. Show me how to correct the things I’ve done wrong, and help me not to do them again.”
Day seven: Don’t Crow Too Loud
Bible Reading: Proverbs 21:2-4
Pride goes before destruction. Proverbs 16:18, niv
TWO ROOSTERS. One barnyard. Bad news.
The barnyard was deserted. The wooden door to the henhouse banged open and shut. Two roosters faced each other, their eyes cold and their beaks unsmiling.
“This coop ain’t big enough for the both of us,” snarled Rudy Rooster.
“You got that right, ya no-’count varmint,” Renaldo Rooster countered. “I want you on the first stage outta this here chicken coop.”
“The only rooster leavin’ here today’11 be you, Renaldo-in a KFC box!”
Suddenly, without warning, Rudy jumped Renaldo, and the battle began, the two roosters scratching and clawing and squawking like World War III had come to their little chicken coop. They rolled and flapped in the dirt until Renaldo broke free. He tucked his wings and ran for shelter under a broken-down wagon.
“Ha!” shouted Rudy. “I am the champion!” he crowed. He jumped to the roof of the henhouse and started crowing at the top of his lungs.
While Rudy boasted of his new superiority over the barnyard, an eagle heard his horrible singing. Fastening an eye on the boastful bantam, the eagle swooped down and carried Rudy off in his mighty talons.
Moments later Renaldo emerged from the shelter of the old wagon and cast an eye toward the heavens. The sky was clear, and the day was bright. Renaldo’s position was undisputed. He was the only rooster in the whole chicken coop.
Everybody is tempted at some time or another to get a little conceited. It’s a common temptation to want to brag about something good you’ve done. But being prideful is not only unattractive-it’s wrong. The Bible says, “Haughty eyes, a proud heart, and evil actions are all sin” (Proverbs 21:4).
That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t feel good when you do a really good job. Nor does it mean that you shouldn’t feel comfortable with who you are. It does mean, however, that when you begin feeling and acting as if you’re better than others, you’re making a wrong choice. Confidence is good. Taking pleasure in your achievements is good. But haughty eyes and a proud heart are wrong.
So the next time you’re tempted to brag and swagger a little bit, remember Rudy and Renaldo, and pray that you won’t fall prey-to pride.
REFLECT: In Proverbs 21:4, what do you think the phrases “haughty eyes” and “a proud heart” mean? Do you ever take try to be “number one” no matter whom it hurts? Do you ever take too much credit for things? How can you avoid the sins today’s Scripture reading talks about?
PRAY (adapted from Psalm 131): “0 Lord, if my heart is proud, if my eyes are haughty, teach me to quiet my soul before you, and to humble myself in your sight and in the sight of others, especially when__.”
taken from Josh Mcdowells’ youth devotion